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The Basics of Tantra
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by emotions that seem to come out of nowhere, or struggled with recurring patterns in your life? You're not alone.
Boundaries are thresholds of self-protection and empowerment. For some, they come instinctively, like armour that shields them from harm. But for others, they're more elusive and harder to wield—these invisible walls some display effortlessly whilst others struggle to draw even the smallest unbroken line.
The sacral chakra, or Svadhisthana, is the source of creativity, sensuality and emotional flow. When balanced, it allows you to embrace pleasure, passion and deep connection. Explore the power of this energy centre and how to awaken its full potential.
Your brain is constantly pulsing with electrical activity, creating rhythmic patterns known as brainwaves. These frequencies influence everything from deep meditation to heightened focus. By understanding and working with brainwaves, we can shift our consciousness, enhance creativity and deepen spiritual awareness.
Vajrayāna Buddhism, often called the Diamond Way, is one of the most beautiful and transformative paths within Buddhism. It’s known as a Tantric path because it works with energy, ritual and perception in ways that are direct, embodied and sometimes even wild.
Tantra is vast, ancient and often misunderstood. Many people associate it solely with sexual practices, but its scope reaches far deeper—addressing consciousness, energy, transformation and the full spectrum of human experience from the mundane to the transcendent.
Do you ever find yourself tripping or stumbling more than usual? Trembling hands when you’re not afraid? Struggling to articulate what you truly mean—only for your words to come out confused or half-formed?
In yogic and tantric traditions, the body is understood as a living map of consciousness itself. At the heart of this map lies the chakra system: energy centres that serve as gateways between the physical and subtle realms of our being.
What are the 4 Duality Archetypes and Which Dominate You?
They are the Light Masculine, Dark Masculine, Light Feminine and Dark Feminine — four energies we all carry. Understanding them helps you restore inner balance and wholeness.
In sacred work, we navigate a delicate paradox: we create spaces of deep vulnerability and connection, yet we must maintain clear professional boundaries. Recently, an experience reminded me just how crucial—and challenging—this balance can be.
In all the work we do—yoni massage, de-armouring, shadow integration, energy work—there's one practice that underlies everything else. It's not exotic. It's not complicated. It's not something that requires years of training to access. It's breath.
The dakini is a messenger of spaciousness and a force of truth, presiding over the funeral of self-deception. Wherever we cling, she cuts; whatever we think we can hide, even from ourselves, she reveals.
Tantric Practice
Many women carry tension, numbness or disconnection in their pelvis and sexuality because bodies hold the imprint of experiences. Whether from cultural conditioning that taught us our pleasure doesn't matter, from intimate experiences that weren't fully consensual or honouring…
In tantric practice, the entire body becomes a landscape of potential pleasure and presence. An experienced tantrika develops such acute sensitivity and energetic awareness that they can experience orgasmic states through stimulation of almost any part of the body—not just the obvious erogenous zones. This is the art of whole-body awakening.
Your body is always speaking. Every sensation, every subtle shift in breath, every tightening or softening is a message—an invitation to listen more deeply.
Female pleasure is a gateway to profound self-knowledge, healing and spiritual awakening. Much more than simple physical release, orgasms are portals to accessing deeper states of consciousness, where you can move energy through your body and experience the sacred nature of your sexuality.
Body armouring occurs when we experience danger, anxiety, stress or trauma. In response, our bodies instinctively block, defend or numb themselves as protection against pain and vulnerability.
Bee Breath, Bhramari Pranayama in Yoga, is a form of breathing involving humming during exhalation…
Love, a universal language that speaks to the depths of the soul. Just as we all possess a unique personality, the expression and reception of love vary in distinctive ways for everyone.
True healing reaches far beyond the physical body. It is the integration of mind, body and spirit—a deep remembering of our innate wholeness.
Life, Sexuality & Soul
There’s a part of you that remembers.
A quieter part—steady, watching, waiting beneath the noise.
It doesn’t crave chaos or complication.
It longs for space. Simplicity. Truth.
In its high-grade form, cacao has long been revered as a ceremonial plant medicine amongst Mayans and Aztecs. Its use is sacred: to support deeper self-connection, emotional release and heightened intuition.
Change is both universal and unsettling.
Like the caterpillar dissolving into its chrysalis before becoming a butterfly, we resist transitions, even when they are gateways into freedom.
Why Self-Valuing Matters More Than You Think
In the realm of intimacy, how we feel about our bodies and what we believe about them can be just as important as how we inhabit them.
From the dawn of spiritual traditions, solitude has been the soul’s sanctuary—a space to listen, unravel and return home to the self. When we sit in stillness, attune to our breath and limit the noise around us, we begin to hear the subtle rhythms of our body, our truth and our deepest knowing.
There’s more than one version of you. In every moment, a different force within rises to lead, driven by instinct, shaped by experience. Some parts protect. Some push. Some quietly sabotage.
Solo travel gives you ultimate freedom. You are beholden only to you, what you want and where you want to go. In that freedom and infinite space of possibility, you meet yourself. See what retreats we have on offer designed for you!
Have you ever felt a deep call to cleanse—not just your body, but also your emotions, your thoughts, your deeper core of self? That is where I found myself before I stepped into a water fast experience in Bali recently.
You crave happiness, freedom and fulfilment. You long for more love, more pleasure, more power. And yet, something holds you back. Every time you edge closer to what you truly desire, resistance rises like an invisible wall. Why?
I decided to go on an adventure to Sumba solo. The catalyst was to visit The Sanubari resort and see the potential for running Tantra Yoga retreats there. Whilst there, I felt it might be nice to explore the island. I got so much more than just exploration of the island.